I lost my
job teaching skiing thirteen years ago; and it was this, seemingly innocuous
event, which precipitated my journey through madness. But adversity makes you stronger—and solitude
makes you wiser. All things which
consumed me during my years spent in isolation—my years of emotional
retreat—served to make me more capable of affecting the collective
consciousness from my platform of recovered schizophrenic.
Delusions of
grandeur, along with paranoia, were terribly defeating to my ability to remain
steadfast to the here and now while I was suffering. Suffering was in the shape of having a contorted
ego—in trying to fit something very large into a very small space. For ten years of my life, I thought I had
been one of the greatest generals in history.
All ten of those years were spent in tremendous self-pity.
Five years
went by—while I was psychotic—before I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. After receiving this diagnosis, and
responding by attempting suicide, I was placed in a group home. And there the journey—through madness—which
has planted me firmly in my most intimate expression of myself which I can
muster—took a marked turn for the better.
At this group home, which was in Castleton, Vermont, I began seeing a
psychiatrist. He recommended to me that
I journal about my military service.
Beyond
journaling, which I’m sure helped me to dig deeper into myself, I began to do
one hundred mile bike rides, once a month.
Exercise, as my psychiatrist put it, was one of the very best things for
my mental and spiritual health.
Schizophrenia
is not easily brushed off—doing one hundred mile bike rides—and
journaling—still left me with too many unanswered questions. A lot of soul searching would have to be done
before I could live with the challenges I faced then, and still do today. I had to understand that it was not a result
of a deficiency of my character that I was hopelessly lonely—and poor. And I needed to see that I was indeed strong;
this was a lesson that wasn’t learned until I broke; not until the
self-destructive nature of schizophrenia was exacted on my soul.
I left the
group home where I did one hundred mile bike rides and maintained for a short
while. But then I regressed. I had this lingering fear that if I didn’t
spend the rest of my life in jail that I’d be the most tortured man in history.
Some things
which we experience in our lives are too intricately woven into the fabric of
our character to be public knowledge. I
had a moment which I so desperately lost my sanity that I had to be put in
jail—and, eventually, involuntarily committed.
I do not share what occurred that resulted in this punishment with
anyone but my very closest friends. I
am, however, very fortunate to be able to say that no one was hurt and no
permanent damage was done.
Eventually,
after educating myself about schizophrenia, and receiving treatment in another
group home, I came to realize I had not been a general.
When you
manage to peek through the underbrush of an alternative reality, you get
hit. Stepping forth, out of my journey
through madness, brought with it a not just a feeling of accomplishment, and
not just gratefulness either. I felt
almost immediately that I had to rectify my wrong doings; I felt I had to make
up for lost time. All the years of being
someone other than myself fueled a desire to be more of the person I was meant
to be. I wanted to be stronger than I
had ever been.
Needing to
be stronger than ever before fueled my recovery. I began blogging on my recovery process,
daily. And I began taking seriously the
craft of writing. Almost as soon as I
got started, I saw fruits of my labor. Because
of my blog, I was invited to speak at the State House here in Vermont. I would also (in a round-a-bout way) find
work as a peer professional. Work I did
as a mental health advocate culminated in 2014 with a rally I put on for mental
health awareness s month.
And then I
set a new year’s resolution heading into 2015.
I decided it was time to get off of disability payments. Almost as soon as the New Year started, the universe
spun me around, and I was forced to resign from my position as a peer
professional at a very good social services agency. My years of work to be the strongest mental
health advocate that I could be, took a sudden hit.
Among the
more radically minded survivors in the peer movement, people like to think that
their suffering served a purpose. I
vehemently stand by this point. I feel that
surviving schizophrenia made me much stronger.
Basically, the idea that psychosis can lead to tremendous insight into
the soul, refutes a conception in psychiatry which attempts to have people
return to “base line.” Base line is the
level of functioning that preceded the psychotic break. And for a long time, I resisted the notion
that I would only be able to resume a life which held as much richness as what
I had before my fight for sanity.
Stronger,
wiser, and more educated, I am. But I’m
still the very same person—at my most intimate level—which I was before I lost my mind. And that’s pretty
fucking great because I had a lot going for me.
Getting
caught up in being better, stronger, and more outspoken was defeatist to my
being in the here and now. Any feelings
of grandiosity, whether brought on by psychosis, or by a lingering feeling that
something better is out there for me, took away from the simplicity of having a
truly intimate connection to the life I lead.
My years of
work to recover a life, once broken by madness, have led me to great
heights. I’m thankful that my hard labor
yielded tremendous fruit. But life holds
something deeper for me than to just be a leader—or advocate. Today, I’m realizing that the life I am
leading has rewards far greater than grandiosity. And it is within the simplicity of the person
that I am that my connection to my heart, and soul, and to my own innate
goodness may find root and abundance.